Generally speaking, the work that is lain out in the readings requires about 3 to 5 months for my clients to complete, if they actually do the work. So I suggest that you wait about four months before requesting another reading. Also, look at your reading and do a checklist to see how much of what was suggested or talked about, you have actually executed. If you’ve done at least 85%, then it is probably time for another reading. If you have only done 30% of what was suggested, it most certainly is not time. Spirit folks will simply repeat themselves, and have no regard for your money. I do however, and want you to get the most out of your experience.

These are working readings usually, though for some, they are just check ups to see if they are on target. For most of the rest of us, they are guidelines for us to stay on target with our spiritual growth.

God is not religious. All world religions are a cultural interpretation of God. Therefore since ultimately all of my readings come from spirits who work in conjunction with God, a reading I do cannot be in conflict with God’s directives, but instead, are truly messages from God. Anything further than that you might have to answer for yourself. The book, The Next God might be quite useful to read first if this is still a question that concerns you.

I wrote The Next God as a guide for my clients because I was repeating the same concepts and theories again and again in order for them to fully understand what was being said in the spiritual readings. So now I request that my students use this workbook/guide alongside their reading so that they can understand the reading more fully.

Beyond that, I do answer questions that my clients have about the reading, within reason. Bear in mind though, that these readings are guides for the work the client must do, and thus everything will not be answered by the spirits if it is the client’s work to stretch, understand and complete. However I will endeavor to answer questions that help a person understand the intended direction of the reading and their tasks to complete.

Usually, when people are ready, the readings are very clear, and that makes up about 85% of my clients. If a person is resistant to change, or certain parts of the reading because they don’t like what’s said or see themselves that way, sometimes it is a matter of time before they understand and see the changes needed. Only a very small percentage, less than maybe 3% just plain and simply don’t see the connections, and I can see why they question the reading as well. More often, people are in some form of denial, but even then, this is a process and it might not make sense in those rare cases till a couple of years from now. I have had people call me a full year later who had a recent experience that made the reading clear as a bell, when at first they thought it was ludicrous. Most people take less time however if they are going to see the connections.

I believe that we all have this ability. It is simply an energetic communication issue, and we must learn to deal with and handle the energy in order to communicate with beings on different frequencies. For me it took practice. I believe that also, it can be in our spiritual genetic make up that enables us to be able to utilize that energy in this manner, but that we ALL will be able to do so one day. I think that human spirits are evolving and everyone will be able to communicate in this manner in a few hundred years. It is simply a form of telepathic communication with the same spirit, because spiritual energy never ends, but instead only resides in a different form or place. We simply have to learn how to do it.

When a spirit first wakes up, or even if they have been continued on another plane for a long time but have not communicated with someone on this plane, they have to learn how to communicate with me, just as I had to learn how to communicate with continued spirits on their plane. It takes some practice. So first communications are often broken, static-like, repetitive, faint and go in and out until they find the spiritual frequency that works for them. It may take me two to five attempts to communicate with them before I can fully understand them. During this phase, they sound much like the continued spirit audio recordings on the library podcast page of this website.

Once they find the same frequency, or at least one that works to communicate with me, then they sound pretty much like they must have in life. At least the spirits I know personally do, so I assume that the rest do. It is just a fainter conversation in my head, instead of being outside of my head, but for example, my parents sound just as they did in this life, my mother’s cranked up laugh and all! There is a calmness to them however that seems more heightened than in life. This seems true even with the more malevolent spirits.

Generally speaking, a spirit goes into a resting phase for the first 3 to 6 months, depending upon their goals and how difficult their departure was from this plane. A person who had a long illness might take more time before they become aware again, and a person/spirit who was in a catastrophic and/or unexpected departure might take longer, because they generally weren’t prepared it seems.

However, from what I know, upon departure, a person’s/spirit’s life does actually “flash before their eyes” sort of, and they are suddenly aware of everything that has happened to them and to the people with whom they are closest. It is at this time that some have contacted me to say things like “Tell so-and-so I’m okay, and just fine.” That is within the first 5 minutes that they depart, that I have received such messages. Then they go to rest. Additionally, I can ask other spirits how they are in general, if they are still resting. Specific questions must be answered by the spirit itself however.

So I can reach them and ask if they want to be contacted by the spirit/person still on this plane after they wake up. I cannot however, guarantee that they will agree to speak with me. Some don’t, if the work that needs to be done by the contacting spirit/person on this plane is not complete. Others are eager to talk.

I’ve been aware of spirits and felt and saw them most of my life, since age 8, being my most vivid memory of such. I’ve always heard a word here and there, or a phrase or sentence beginning about that time too. However I’ve only achieved my present level of clarity, and it is still changing and getting stronger, since 2001, with heightened awareness beginning in 1997.